Don’t Find Yourself. Remind Yourself.
I don’t believe in finding purpose.
I don’t believe in finding yourself.
I believe in reminding yourself who you are.
Too many people are out here “trying to find themselves,” as if they’ve been misplaced. But let’s be real: if you’re trying to find yourself, it implies you’re lost. That language alone is the first trick of the matrix—an internalized belief that you are somehow missing.
Ancient civilizations didn’t operate like that. They didn’t spend their time chasing identity. They studied themselves. They remembered. They dug deeper into their being. And when life knocked them off course, they didn’t isolate—they returned to the community, the tribe, the circle.
Because that circle reminded them who they were.
Modern Society Has It Backward
Today, we’ve curated confusion.
We tell people to:
Go to college and find themselves.
Get a job and find security.
Enter relationships and find love.
But all that “finding” has left a generation lost.
This idea that you’re some fragmented puzzle waiting to be assembled is a distortion. It’s the result of a system that profits off your confusion—a system that disconnects you from your cultural memory, isolates your healing into individualized therapy, and separates you from the sacred mirror of community.
Traditional elders understood this.
When you were off track, they didn’t say, “Go heal in silence.”
They said, “Come back home.”
Because home is a frequency, not just a place.
And reminders are activations.
When you’re surrounded by those who know your essence, you’re reminded of your origin.
The Best Cognitive Defense is Knowledge of Self
Today’s world is designed for cognitive warfare—through algorithms, ideologies, media manipulation, and identity traps. The goal is simple: if they can confuse you about who you are, they can control what you become.
So what’s the defense?
Remind. Your. Self.
Literally: re-mind—to return your mind to its rightful frequency.
Go back to your source code. Ask yourself:
What did I love before the world told me who to be?
Who were my parents? My grandparents? What stories run in my blood?
What was I naturally drawn to as a child?
What truths have always been there, even when I tried to deny them?
When you sit with yourself—not to find, but to remember—you unlock the God within.
You Are Not Lost. You’ve Been Distanced.
You don’t need a new identity. You need a return.
Not a breakthrough. A remembrance.
You are not incomplete—you are complex.
You don’t need validation—you need alignment.
So today, take a moment.
Breathe.
Close your eyes.
Tap into your mind’s eye.
Pull from the depths of your lived experience.
And remind yourself who you really are.